About Tia the Spiritualist

My name is Tia, and I am the voice behind Tia the Spiritualist.

I did not come from a childhood of order, stability, or emotional safety. My early years were shaped by chaos — before I was even born. I was surrounded by unhealthy patterns, avoidance, and a lack of structure. And yet, I carry no hatred in my heart for where I came from. Only understanding.

Understanding has been one of my greatest teachers.

As I moved into adulthood, and later into motherhood, I began to see life differently. I realised that while I could not rewrite my past, I could consciously choose how I lived my present — and how I shaped my future.

Motherhood deepened this awareness. It taught me the importance of presence, emotional safety, and being seen and heard. Every day, I try to ensure my daughter feels valued, supported, and loved in ways I once needed myself.

Outside of my writing, I work in the beauty industry, where I find genuine joy in helping women feel confident and beautiful in their own skin. There is something deeply healing about honest work, caring for others, and showing up with intention. I also value the quiet beauty of everyday life — meaningful conversations with my sisters, kindness toward my neighbours, and living in a way that feels aligned rather than rushed.

When I was 18, I read my first “big girl” book — The Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
That book opened my eyes to how the mind works, how thoughts shape behaviour, and how inner beliefs influence the life we experience. It planted a seed — but it was only the beginning.

Over the years, I came to understand something deeply important:
our thoughts create our reality.

Once I truly grasped this, I made a conscious decision. I chose not to spend my precious time on earth reliving the pain of my childhood. Instead, I chose to create a beautiful adulthood — one rooted in awareness, responsibility, compassion, and growth.

This blog exists as a space where I share what I have learned along the way. Not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone who continues to learn, soften, and choose presence each day. Here, I write about healing, spirituality, emotional awareness, and the quiet practices that help us live more consciously.

If you are here, I believe you are seeking something similar — not perfection, but peace.
Not escape, but understanding.

You are welcome here.

Love Tia xox